Who can be the best husband ?
01.) Dress up for your woman
look clean and smell good. When was the last time we men went shopping for developer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his woman to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Flashback to Rasulullah (ﷺ), who would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
02.) Use the cutest names for your woman.
Rasulullah (ﷺ) had aliases for his women and bones that they loved. Call your woman by the most cherished names and avoid using names that hurt their passions.
03.) Don’t treat her like a cover.
We no way suppose about a cover in our daily lives until it bugs us. Also, a woman will do well all day, which brings no attention from the husband, until she does something to ‘bug’him. Don’t treat her like this; fete all the good that she does and concentrate on that.
04.) If you see something wrong with your woman,
Try being silent and don’t note! This is one of the ways Rasulullah (ﷺ) used when he’d see a commodity unhappy with his woman, Radiallahu Anhunn. It’s a commodity that veritably many Muslim men have learned or practiced with their women.
05.) Smile at your woman whenever you see her and embrace her frequently.
Smiling is sadaqah, and your woman isn’t pure from the Muslim ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Flash back also those Ahadith when Rasulullah (ﷺ) would kiss his woman before leaving for Salah, indeed, if he was dying.
06.) Thank her for all that she does for you. Also, thank her again! Take, for illustration, a regale at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and has a dozen other tasks to prepare. And occasionally, the only acknowledgment she receives is that there is a demand for more swabs in the haze. Don’t be that person; thank her!
07.) Ask her to write down the last ten effects you did for her that made her happy.
also, go and do them again. It may be hard to celebrate what makes her happy. You don’t have to play a guessing game; ask her and work on repeating those effects in your life.
08.) Do not belittle her solicitations. Comfort her.
Occasionally, men may look down upon the requests of their women. Rasulullah (ﷺ) set the illustration for us in an incident when Safiyyah RA was crying because, as she said, he’d put her on a slow camel. He wiped her gashes, assured her, and brought her the camel.
09.) Husband! Be humorous and play games with your woman
. Make her laugh; have little inside jokes and moments with her. Actually, your wife’s horselaugh is one of the most stylish sounds in life. Make her smile and keep her happy. Look at how Rasulullah (ﷺ) would fight his woman, Aisha RA, in the desert. When was the last time we did commodities like that?
10.) Always flash back the words of Allah’s Messenger, (ﷺ) “The stylish of you are those who treat their families the stylish. And I’m the most stylish amongst you in my family. ” Try to be stylish!
Never forget to make dua to Allah (ﷻ) to make your marriage successful. And Allah (ﷻ) knows best!
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